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Why We Wait to Feel Desperate?

By lovingwise2023 / December 10, 2017

When I met Shana, an attractive woman in her 30s, she was dating a new guy every few months. She...

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How to Get Matchmakers to do the Best Job for You?

By lovingwise2023 / November 9, 2017

The more clear you are about what you need from a relationship, the better able you'll be to express this to a matchmaker who will then be in a better position to set you up.

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Hidden Shame of the Harvey Weinstein Scandal

By lovingwise2023 / November 2, 2017

Men report they feel emasculated and no longer able to flirt and show affection towards women. Women feel less safe about creating relationships with men...We need to create a shift in our thinking and do a reality check in order to heal from this scandal.

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Top 5 Ways to Upgrade Your Relationship

By lovingwise2023 / September 9, 2017

When we upgrade our devices we expect a newer better functioning system that works with similar parameters. Upgrading our relationship is no different. We needn’t throw away what we have to get the upgrade we require. By acknowledging new realizations and awareness about what we need from a relationship, we don’t have to throw out the baby with the bathwater and start from scratch. We can just reboot, and incorporate the changes by acknowledging what we need from ourselves and gingerly yet directly, communicate what we need from our partner.

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What is it That Stops People From Committing and Keeps So Many Single? (podcast)

By lovingwise2023 / August 6, 2017

In this podcast taken from a series of radio interviews, Micki Lavin-Pell discusses some of the reasons she believe are...

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Book Review for Hold Me Tight, by Dr. Sue Johnson

By lovingwise2023 / July 3, 2017

When most couples first get married, they believe that their job is done. The hard part is behind them. They...

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Top Tips to Ensure Relationship Differences Don’t Tear You Apart!

By lovingwise2023 / July 2, 2017

My husband and I got engaged over July 4th weekend 17 years ago. As we were living in New York...

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The Torah of Commitment to your Relationship!

By lovingwise2023 / May 23, 2017

The more we take a leap of faith and believe in ourselves, the better able we will be to commit to someone else.

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How to Make Sure You Aren’t Settling 4 Love?

By lovingwise2023 / May 21, 2017

Are you concerned about settling for love and making the biggest mistake of your life? Read this article to find out what questions to focus on when searching for love?

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Is Jealousy Stealing your Chance for Love?

By lovingwise2023 / April 30, 2017

For some of us, jealousy and pain rear its ugly green eyes when we see someone we know jump with...

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Freedom: Are you single by choice?

By lovingwise2023 / April 9, 2017

We're surrounded by people in relationships. But not all relationships are created equal. While some appear to be happily coupled,...

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Post Relationship Trauma- Getting to the Other Side

By lovingwise2023 / April 4, 2017

Post Relationship trauma is a common barrier to forming healthy, loving, romantic relationships. To learn more about Post relationship trauma and how to heal from it, read this article.