On a recent trip go Italy, I was standing on line at the airport next to a handsome looking man sporting a shirt that read, “You can never be too sexy.” So it made me think:
“Can one possibly be too sexy?”
If the objective of sexiness is for a hook up alone, then, the answer is probably, “No”!
But for those of us looking for more meaningful and rich relationships, then maybe it is possible…but how? We all have to do something to attract a partner. And our outer shell is the first thing people see…
Others encountering the TOO sexy person may objectify them and begin to see them only as something to be admired for their looks, and not really be able to get to know the real person that lies underneath. Falling for someone based solely upon their outer appearance can obviously be a dangerous trap. One that is so seductive and easy to get sucked into.
So, in response to the question: “Is it possible to be too sexy,?” If you are looking for a quality relationship, tempering sexiness with content like kindness, warmth and empathy may not be such a bad idea, lest someone choose you for sex alone.
Which qualities do you most want to attract love? Shoot me an email: [email protected]
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