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Many of the single Olim Chadashim I work with want to marry an Oleh Chadash like themselves. They believe that...

If you have written your online dating profile, you know by now it is the least romantic, and most business...

Increasing our feelings of hope by doing what we love and shifting our attitude about dating is the best way to overcome our dating slump.

We were all raised on beautiful, fairy tale fantasies. Where the Prince marries the gorgeous girl and they live happily ever after. They ride into the red and orange haloed sunset on a white stallion with a magnificent, towering castle in the background which promises only joy and prosperity. How many couples try and recreate this fairy tale fantasy on their wedding day and in their lives? We all want to live happily ever after. That’s why the fairy tales are reproduced again and again in our theaters. They feed into our fantasy of the way our life should be. Of the way our partner should be; the shining Prince with a sky high bank balance and a six pack to match; the magnificent woman of Barbie proportions with the benevolence of Mother Teresa.

An affair, like drugs, overabundance of alcohol, and unhealthy food is a quick fix. It's a slippery slope for someone who genuinely love's their partner and wants to keep their marriage alive. Just as the idea of Weight Watchers is to help us stay on the straight and narrow with our diet, marriage education programs can help us learn ways to keep marital love exciting and alive.

Most people want others to find them love. It is so much smarter to figure out what you need before looking for a partner so that you can attract the One.

Do you ever notice that your family dynamic is a little more insane over the holidays than at any other...