Overcome Barriers to Love!
Have you been dating for a while and finding that you rarely feel attracted to your dates. Or those that you are attracted to, aren’t attracted back. Find out what may be blocking your way towards finding love and creating a lasting loving relationship.
Is Conflict Killing Your Couple Dynamic
Want to understand your conflict dynamic more. In this video Micki explains just how conflict works in most marriages and couple relationships. She talks about how you can learn to unhook and free yourself from conflict for good!
Kill Corona, Keep Your Love Alive!
Watch this video to learn tips on how to avoid a negative dynamic with your partner/spouse during this challenging time of Corona!
Tips for Zoom Dating During Corona!
Want to make the most of your spare time during this time of Corona/COVID-19? Watch this video to learn how to use this time productively and to date and find love!!!
The Top 5 Ways To Kill Dating Stress!
Does the whole idea of dating make you feel burnt you out? Here are some ways to kills stress so you don’t waste time feeling crappy and start enjoying your dates more!
How to Make Your Dates More Vibrant!
Do you often feel like your dates are duds? Here are 5 tips to help you make your dates go much better than what you might expect!
Keep Your Mojo While Looking For Love!
So many of us struggle to continue to feel positive while looking for love! It’s one of the hardest things any of us will ever do…Here are my Top 5 tips that will keep you feeling happy and positive while looking for love!
Communicate with the One You Love Like a Rockstar!
Lots of couples struggle to communicate. They don’t realize what is blocking them and tripping them up. When you realize what is getting in your way you can clear the path and communicate better!
Why Do You Go For People who Reject you?
Do you find that you go for people who reject you, but feel turned off by the people who seem into you? This video will help you make sense of this frustrating and painful phenomenon.
How to Keep Perfectionism from Getting in the Way of Your Love
If you are a perfectionist, then this video is for you. Watch more to find out why perfectionists have such a hard time finding and keeping love, and what you can do to keep your perfectionistic tendencies at bay, and find love.
Use Perspective to Enhance and Strengthen your Love
It’s fairly natural for us to want our partners to see things from our perspective. Conversely, we all find it super hard to see things from theirs, especially when we feel our viewpoint is obviously correct. I’ve worked with hundreds of couples who were caught in the notion that their perspective was correct while their partners wasn’t. Watch more to learn how to maximize the perspective muscle and gain brownie points with the one you love.
How Does Trauma Get in The Way of Love
In my previous videos I’ve shared discussed barriers to love. Trauma is one such barrier. Here I also share how to specifically use a technique called Somatic Experience therapy to treat trauma and get it out of the way from blocking the road to love.
Top Tips on How to be Create More Chemistry in Dating
Many clients have shared with me that they believe chemistry is either there or its not. In this video I show you how chemistry in love and romance can actually be created.
Top Tips on How to be Open to More Love Possibilities
In other video’s I’ve discussed why people have barriers to love. In this video I focus on the positive. Watch this video to learn top tips on how to expand your love possibilities.
Top 5 Ways to Overcome Hopelessness in Dating
If you feel hopeless about ever finding love and need a boost, check out this video to find out how to get out of that muck and turn things around…
Why Do Couples Therapy When Things are Going Well
Lots of people make the mistake and believe that the time for couples therapy is when their marriage looks like a ship wreck, and not before. This video uncovers the truth about the best time to seek out couples therapy.
How Micki Helps People Overcome Barriers to Finding Love
In this video, Micki talks about what she does to help people overcome barriers to finding and keeping love.
The Double Bind that Gets in the Way of Love
Are you caught in the double bind of wanting to be noticed and also being petrified with fear about being noticed. Watch more to find out
what makes us get caught in this phenomenon.
Why Doesn’t the Love of My life Get Me?
It may seem an obvious desire to want our partner to just get us. Unfortunately, love just doesn’t work quite that way. Watch more to learn how to get the love of your life to understand you better.
Hold Me Tight Couples Workshop- Q&A 2
What makes a workshop different to individual couple’s therapy?
Hold Me Tight Couples Workshop- Q&A
What makes the the Hold Me Tight Workshop different from other couple’s programs?
Hold Me Tight Jerusalem Couples Workshop
Do you find that you get stuck in arguments? Do you want to make your marriage even better? Join me in December 2018 for a 4 week workshop in Jerusalem and make your marriage better and stronger.
Overcoming Relationship Loss
Micki Lavin-Pell talks about the 7 stages of overcoming grief so you can overcome the pain of a lost relationship and enter a new one in the healthiest way possible. Although this is so painful, its the best opportunity for growth!
Importance of Being Vulnerable in Relationships
There’s lots of talk about being vulnerable in a relationship. This video answers why i is so important. To receive the Magic of Vulnerability Workbook, click on this link: https://lp.vp4.me/jnka
Why You Should Never Hurry Love!
This video helps you consider what you need to think about if you’re looking to create a long term loving relationship, leading to marriage. Rushing will only get you into a mess.
What influences our ability to be attracted to a romantic partner?
Many don’t realize why they struggle with being able to connect with and feel attracted to people of the opposite sex. John Bowlby’s attachment theory explains how the quality of our earliest connection influences our future connections.
Overcome Barriers to Attraction
Do you find it hard to feel attracted to the people you meet and date? Do you often feel attracted to only those who will never be interested in you? Learn how to expand your dating possibilities!
Attraction in Dating
What makes it difficult to feel attracted…This video explains why and how to overcome obstacles to feeling attraction.
Running from One Relationship to the Next
Do you find your relationships roll from one to the next with barely enough breathing space in between. Check out this video to find out what makes you do that and learn why doing this may not be the best idea and how to create more breathing space.
How To Choose Love!
Choosing to be in a committed relationship can be very confronting. Check out these tips on how to focus your decision better.
How to identify real potential in a date
Five key points to look out for when you are dating to identify real potential in someone you are dating.
How to recognize and avoid Red Flags
It’s not always obvious to us when our dates are waving Red Flags in our way. Find out how to identify these Red Flags, from an interview with Emily Francis from i24 News (June 28, 2018).
Dos and Don’ts from First Dates
First dates can be really challenging. Here are some tips of ideas to help you through – from an interview with Emily Francis from i24 News.
Why we Date People Who Are Wrong for Us
Ever wonder why you seem to choosing dates or partners who are wrong for you? This video explains the theory behind why we choose partners who are wrong for us, how we get caught in unhealthy relationship patterns and what you can do differently to invite the love of your life.
Communicate with the One You Love Like a Rockstar!
Lots of couples struggle to communicate. They don’t realize what is blocking them and tripping them up. When you realize what is getting in your way you can clear the path and communicate better!
Why Do You Go For People who Reject you?
Do you find that you go for people who reject you, but feel turned off by the people who seem into you? This video will help you make sense of this frustrating and painful phenomenon.
How to Keep Perfectionism from Getting in the Way of Your Love
If you are a perfectionist, then this video is for you. Watch more to find out why perfectionists have such a hard time finding and keeping love, and what you can do to keep your perfectionistic tendencies at bay, and find love.
Use Perspective to Enhance and Stregnthen your Love
It’s fairly natural for us to want our partners to see things from our perspective. Conversely, we all find it super hard to see things from theirs, especially when we feel our viewpoint is obviously correct. I’ve worked with hundreds of couples who were caught in the notion that their perspective was correct while their partners wasn’t. Watch more to learn how to maximize the perspective muscle and gain brownie points with the one you love.
How Does Trauma Get in The Way of Love
In my previous videos I’ve shared discussed barriers to love. Trauma is one such barrier. Here I also share how to specifically use a technique called Somatic Experience therapy to treat trauma and get it out of the way from blocking the road to love.
Top Tips on How to be Create More Chemistry in Dating
Many clients have shared with me that they believe chemistry is either there or its not. In this video I show you how chemistry in love and romance can actually be created.
Top Tips on How to be Open to More Love Possibilities
In other video’s I’ve discussed why people have barriers to love. In this video I focus on the positive. Watch this video to learn top tips on how to expand your love possibilities.
Top 5 Ways to Overcome Hopelessness in Dating
If you feel hopeless about ever finding love and need a boost, check out this video to find out how to get out of that muck and turn things around…
Why Do Couples Therapy When Things are Going Well
Lots of people make the mistake and believe that the time for couples therapy is when their marriage looks like a ship wreck, and not before. This video uncovers the truth about the best time to seek out couples therapy.
How Micki Helps People Overcome Barriers to Finding Love
In this video, Micki talks about what she does to help people overcome barriers to finding and keeping love.
The Double Bind that Gets in the Way of Love
Are you caught in the double bind of wanting to be noticed and also being petrified with fear about being noticed. Watch more to find out what makes us get caught in this phenomenon.
Why Doesn’t the Love of My life Get Me?
It may seem an obvious desire to want our partner to just get us. Unfortunately, love just doesn’t work quite that way. Watch more to learn how to get the love of your life to understand you better.
Do You Fear You Married the Wrong One?
Did you recently get married and start to think to yourself that maybe you made a mistake? Many people fear that they married the wrong one as soon as you have your first fight as a married couple. Everyone appears to be very different when we first get married as we all let our hair down just as soon as it’s official. The main thing is not to freak out! This video will offer you tips on how to calm down and explains why this happens…So that you can create the healthy and successful relationship you want.
How to Create a Healthy Relationship?
Do you find that just when things are starting to look good, you pull the plug on the relationship? This video will explain why you are likely to end a relationship just when things are starting to look good. Once you have more awareness and greater clarity about what you are doing, you will be able to make the changes you need to make so that you can get the relationship to the next level…and create a healthy relationship! Check out my website for more great.
Had Enough of Being Neither Here nor There? Get Out of the Friend Zone Now!!!
Do you have a friend that you wish was really your boyfriend or girlfriend? This video offers tips on how to get out of the friend zone and explains why this is crucial to moving on…So you can decide one why or another which way your relationship will go, rather than being stuck in limbo for the rest of your life?
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Do You Have Enough Space for Love?
Do you have enough space for a thriving relationship? Are you so busy no one can get in? By learning how to balance out your life better, you will be able to create more space for the love of your life to enter.
Differences Between Men and Women When it Comes to Communication
Watch this video to learn more about differences between men and women in how they communicate. See how clearing up misunderstandings can help you overcome challenges when it comes to dating, engagement and marriage. She offered practical insight into how to overcome and manage these challenges in a practical way.
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How to Create a Healthy Relationship
Do you find that just when things are starting to look good, you pull the plug on the relationship? This video will explain why you are likely to end a relationship just when things are starting to look good. Once you have more awareness and greater clarity about what you are doing, you will be able to make the changes you need to make so that you can get the relationship to the next level…and create a healthy relationship!
DATING AND RELATIONSHIP COACHING
Find out what dating coaching can do for you and how it can help you to avoid bad dating experiences, and get you into the best place possible to invite in the love of your life.
Pre-Relationship Therapy
Are you intelligent and savvy about most things, but struggling when it comes to finding love? Want to choose the right one? Tired of making poor relationship choices? In this vlog I talk about some tips for choosing the right partner for the most satisfying long term relationship.
Engagement Coaching
Now that you’re engaged, you have the perfect opportunity to get your marriage off to a great start, right from the beginning. Here are some things you may want to consider during this precious period in your life.
How I Help People Create Great Relationships
Here I describe what motivated me to work with people before they find love, so that they can keep their relationship strong and healthy! By focusing on what makes you tick, you put yourself into the best place possible to invite love.
Why Couple’s therapy when you’ve already decided to divorce?
There’s never the perfect time for couple’s therapy. Although your marriage may not have worked out as you’d hoped, this doesn’t mean the divorce process has to end in disaster. Here Micki lists several reason’s you may benefit from couple’s therapy, even if it’s over.